My husband and I are pretty okay with open relationships as long as we openly talk about who we like and don't keep secrets. He also had a husband and discussed this with his. So no cheating here at all.
I don't quite remember how long I've been secretly having a crush on him; but we met somewhere around late 2022 to early 2023. My first impression was he looked quite cute and fit my type. Later the year, I found out he was studying tobecome an english teacher, nice! He's also an artist till this day, granted that his self-esteem about his arts is quite low, just like me, haha.
Anyway, we started hanging out more on weekends, mostly on a cafe so our circle can draw together.
On an early day of July, he invited me and some more friends to watch Backroom movie. I gathered all the courage to ask if I could hold his hand while watching and to my surprise, he agreed!! Aaaaahhhkjfldasjl. I don't know but it felt like the first movie date with my hubby. He gripped my hand whenever there was a scary moment, my eyes were on the screen but I just couldn't really pay attention to the movie anymore xD.
After the movie, he even gave me a present. Oh my gosh, it was so sweet and I really loved it. I really like holding my hubby's hands and his. Hope I can do it again soon.